Do people regularly take what you say the wrong way?

Do you wish they would just listen to what you said?

Even if you have good intentions and don't say anything hurtful, people may still be upset at your words. That's because the tone of your voice sends a message that is even more important than the words you use. This can be frustrating, especially when you don't mean to cause upset.

It can happen when you're talking with a loved one, trying to assert yourself at work, or even asking questions of your doctor or mechanic.

When your tone and body language don't match the meaning of your words, people may assume you're being sarcastic, or funny, or weird. That can cause them to misinterpret what you say, or to wrongly judge the kind of person you are.

Trying to police your tone in every conversation may seem impossible. Luckily, there's a better way.

The truth about tone

You may think you sound friendly when you talk, but others may not hear it that way. That's no one's fault. It happens because your voice actually sounds different to you.

When you talk, your voice rumbles through your skull, making vibrations that your ears pick up as rich, warm tones. Other people, however, don't hear those tones.

That's why you may be surprised to hear yourself on a video and think “I don't sound like that!” It's also why professional singers spend so much time working on their ears. They have to train themselves to hear their voices correctly.

Luckily, you don't need years of vocal training to help your tone match your intentions. You just need to make a few adjustments so that your communication reflects your true feelings and thoughts.

How hypnosis can help

It's Not What You Say is an audio hypnosis session that will train your brain to automatically match your tone to your meaning. By working directly with the unconscious mind, hypnosis can reprogram you to naturally become more expressive.

As you relax and listen repeatedly to your session, you'll notice that you:

• Have fewer misunderstandings from your tone of voice
• Are quicker to notice when your words don't sound right
• Become better at communicating
• Connect with others more easily.

Download It's Not What You Say now and start speaking with confidence! You can listen on your computer or device or via our free app, which you can access when you have completed your purchase.